14 Useful Tips to Manage Stress.

2. Reduce screen time: Design a system that limits your phone use. The emails, pings and WhatsApp messages can wait.

3. Obey the 3 Cardinal laws of Good health: Sleep, Eat well, Exercise. 20 minutes of exercise, 3 square meals & 7-8 hours is the magic pill to managing stress.

4. Have fun: do something you take joy in or that relaxes you. What do you find enjoyable or relaxing? Do more of it.

5. Cut out addictions: drugs, alcohol, porn, anime, Netflix binging, IG, YouTube shorts etc.

Addictions have a way of stealing your joy in the long-term, and robbing you the precious time to do more important things.

If you need tips with cutting out addictions, check the first link at the end of the article.

6. Have quiet time: Take time to pray, meditate, or just daydream. Take time daily to pray, meditate, worship and practice gratitude. Pay attention to your spirit, not only your mind and body. It has terrific impact on your ability to manage stress and difficult times.

7. Take quick breaks: to "breathe" during tasks. Don’t worry, the world won’t fall apart because you took 15 minutes to pause and catch your breath. Rather, you’ll come out refreshed and refocused.

If you die today, though painful, life goes on. Think about that, and take a moment to breathe and just relax.

8. Invest in quality relationships: Connect with people, be a generally friendly person. Then, decide those who really matter to you and invest in those relationships. Good relationships have a relaxing effect. Bad relationships can be extremely stressful.

When you’re tired and cranky, don’t take it out on people, rather let your colleagues, friends and family be channels through which you relieve stress.

9. Make the right choices on critical life decisions. Decisions like where you live, whom you marry, where you work and what you do can greatly increase your stress or joy. Choose carefully, patiently and wisely. Pray and seek quality advice before you make these decisions.

10. Talk to a therapist: If you consistently feel stressed, and you can’t pinpoint the reason, talk to a therapist or a wise, understanding person you trust.

If you are struggling with the idea of seeing a therapist, read the 4th(last) link at the end of the article.

11. Be Kind: Develop compassion and empathy. Be considerate of others and be kind. Kindness has an amazing impact in reducing stress levels. Do something everyday that puts a smile on someone’s face or lifts them up.

12. Mind your thoughts: Guard your heart (your thought life) with all diligence because it is the source of life (I didn’t say that, Proverbs 4:23 did).

Avoid unnecessary thoughts that build up stress in you. Don’t magnify the challenges you are facing. Think of thoughts that empower you, rather than thoughts that depress you.

Yes I know, it’s sometimes easier said than done, but it’s possible (seek the help of a therapist if you find it’s almost impossible to achieve this)

Develop a positive mindset that sees the silver lining behind every dark cloud. Don’t focus on the stress or the source of your worry, focus on what you can do to relieve it.

If you need help managing negative thoughts, check the second set of links at end of article.

13. Keep your eyes on the goal: Sometimes when our path gets tough, and we get stressed, we forget the reason we set out on that path. But when we keep our eyes on the vision or goal it has a way of reenergizing us and helping us manage the stress better

14. Develop expertise quickly: Do more skilled you become at tasks the less stressful they become. Most things are initially difficult but if you can work hard at those beginning stages and quickly develop skill, you’ll shorten the learning time and reduce the stress.

If you need tips on how to develop expertise faster, read 3rd link at end of article.

Links Referenced

Here are the links I referenced in the article:

1- On overcoming addictions: https://link.medium.com/TJjprWRV9sb

2- On Managing thoughts:

How to overcome the inner critic: https://link.medium.com/ZduGzGRO9sb

God heals a fractured mind: https://link.medium.com/45jFj3LX9sb

3- On Developing Expertise: https://link.medium.com/wbqXzAUI1sb

4- Why you may need to see a therapist: https://link.medium.com/45jFj3LX9sb

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I am a water engineer, interpersonal skills coach & teen counselor. I write on hope and rising above shame, rejection, fear & failure. Follow on IG @dipoadebayo